yeah I agree with you totally. Sorry I just re-read my comment and realised that it may have sounded like I was having a go at you for speculating over his sexuality by making this post, I didn't mean to.
I was just agreeing with you that it's sad that unless someone has a steady girlfriend or a big publicised sex life then they must be gay. And it's just so silly that it matters at all really.
Anyway it was an interesting post, so thanks :)